We got your Back Kristen!

Disclaimer: Picture is not mine.

Campy X-Ray, Sils Maria, Anesthesia, Equals and American Ultra. The Big Shoe and Snow White and the Huntsman 2.

Kristen will be rocking cinemas on 2014. This is good news! You know the bad news? People focusing on other things like how long Kristen is going to shoot in New York City and if Rob is going to be there. People focusing on rumors about secret meet-ups or whether Kristen is pregnant or not. People keeping on wondering whether Rob and Kristen are still together or not.

For the record, I don't care whether anyone thinks they are together or not. The truth is, I don't know shit either so we're on equal grounds here. No. I'm not a 'doubter'. I just refuse to focus on her personal business including her romantic life. And no. It doesn't make me a bad fan. In my book, I'm a pretty good fan because instead of focusing on her private life - which she is fiercely protective of and something I, admittedly, know nothing about - I'm directing the majority of my attention on her upcoming films and projects.

So here's what I am proposing to everyone: Instead of reading tabloids to understand the nature of her relationship with everyone (may it be Robert, Nicole, Katy Perry or whoever), or speculating about things that we'll never know and imposing our wants and needs on Kristen, create a buzz about her upcoming films. These tabloids are feeding on what is popular. And in case you haven't noticed, hating Kristen is considered popular and cool. Just check @scottEweinberg's tweets. It's cool to make fun of Kristen Stewart. But God forbid you contradict this comedian or he'll tell you to fuck off. (Don't say I didn't warn you...)

We've tried to talk down haters, dissuade them, make them guilty for being so rude, and even fought with them. If there's something I realized with my interactions with these people whenever they visit my mentions when I'm on twitter, it is that they love hating Kristen. When it comes to hateful fans, they dislike (bit of an understatement here) Kristen more than they support Robert. It's not a hobby they'll be giving up soon. It's not something we can change their minds about. Remember that film The Bling Ring? Remember when Marc said, probably, the problem is that after almost being caught, nothing happened to them? And that gave Rebecca a boost, like she can get away with anything. A boost that she projected on Marc, making him think that what they were doing is okay. That's how I see haters. Poop and those haters pestering people on Twitter, Instagram and Tumblr get away with it. No sanctions, no nothing. And it makes fans think that it's okay. It makes people who hate other people think that it's not so bad to be an anonymous hater. That we can get away with hating. We see people in the internet indirectly promoting bullying and hate whilst poorly disguising it as them 'just stating their opinions'.

They're the figurative brick wall. We're hitting a brick wall trying to talk some sense into them. So don't. Instead, find another way in. Unlike some fans, who stopped being a fan after Twilight ended or because the haters are just too annoying, there are some of us, who refuse to give up the leisure of sending our harmless support to Kristen just because Anny Packer and Co. likes to make us look stupid for actually having the nerve to support Kristen. *Gasp!* I know, it's like that Queen Bee thing at school. My point is, if you can't stop people from hating, then make sure that your shouts of praises and excitement for Kristen's upcoming films are as loud - if not louder - than the haters' malicious and vile words.

I'm not asking you to stop tweeting or talking about the past. I'm just encouraging you to look forward and support your favorite actors. My support for Kristen does not rely on who she is/is not dating. The people she hangs out with does not affect my admiration for her too. I am aware that she is living her life the way she wants too just like I am living my life outside of Twitter and Tumblr, the way I want to. But once films and other projects are in, I'm here to support her. Like Henny always say, Fangirl Hard or Go Home. ❤


P.S. People magazine write stories about something as mundane as Kristen and Robert driving on separate vehicles but they won't write shit about how she's been recently cast in American Ultra. That obvious lack of objectivity is ringing some bells, no?

Something to Think About: Why do Nonstens create Hate Accounts and Stalk Kristen's Family and Friends?

Jimmy is Kristen Stewart's rumored IG account

Not long ago, it was rumored that Kristen Stewart has an Instagram account. According to some fans, she is Jimmy in Instagram and her user name is pfffftuhsuh.The account is locked so there is no finding out if it was Kristen at all. It was just that. A rumor.

Regardless of the validity of the speculation, some fans were excited every time Jimmy comments on one of Kristen's friend's IG accounts. Neither does the lack of confirmation deter Nonstens ¹ from leaving vile and - sometimes - malicious comments especially whenever they see Jimmy commenting on a certain picture. Jimmy is not even confirmed as Kristen's IG account. Sometimes, I think Nonstens are just hating for the sake of hating her.

The picture above shows a Nonsten commenting maliciously right after Jimmy commented on one of Kristen's friend's picture. It says:

"She know how to make easy money with directors of course not  hard to guess what she is sucking and hurt her knees!!!

But this incident is not the first. Poopscoopstew and several nonsten accounts (including a fake Rupert account) has been leaving vile comments on Kristen's friends and family's social networking accounts way before the Jimmy rumors even started.

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Now, I know that some fans are out of line at times too. Some of them leave comments regarding Robert and Kristen which is just rude because these people are Kristen's friends. Their lives do not revolve around Kristen and/or her romantic life. More importantly, they do not spend their days waiting for anyone to ask them to please forward their messages to Kristen and - sometimes - to Rob as well.

In spite of all this, I think these fans' comments are pretty tamed compared to those Nonstens' comments. These fans might be overzealous at times but at least you'll never catch them making the following comments:

rupert_m_sanders: "@ho11ywoo1f @pfffftuhsuh Is this a portrait of you and your sister? Because she really was quite the little devil in bed."

poopscooptew: "@pfffftuhsuh  Bbgurl #KrisbianRodentArmy know @lanegarrison9 romancing U but #IHaveAWorry abt his violent past,,, only let him beat UR biscuit OK 8=====D"

*Also, recently, @diorrob2013 and @out_backer wreaked havoc on CJ's IG account (another friend of Kristen) after CJ posted the picture below. If my memory serves me right, diorrob2013 said that Bee is Dior's symbol or something like that. And being that Rob is the current face of Dior's fragrance, diorrob2013 took it upon him/herself to assume that CJ meant to insult Rob with this picture. Although their comments were already removed, some comments in reply to them can still be seen on CJ's account.

 The comment below is one of the comments in response to diorrob:

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With that said, my point is really simple. 

1) It is not your relationship so please stop obsessing over it. Nonstens go on and on about Kristen breaking Rob's heart so they feel the need to be rude to Kristen, her fans and the shippers who think Rob and Kristen are still together. But leaving comments like the ones above on her family and friends' social networking accounts are not going to do anything more than spread ignorant hate. I say 'ignorant' because at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you know what went on, you don't. Nobody knows aside from the people involved. What you think you know is just a theory based on hearsay and pictures that, over time, you started passing off as truth. Do not confuse your opinion with the truth. 

At the same time, people should stop asking Kristen's friends if she's still dating Robert or ask them to please forward their messages for them. 

2) You are giving his fan base a bad name.Some of his fans are supportive of him, whether or not they approve of his personal decisions. But the Robsessed Nonstens are really loud about their hating. People say some Kristen fans can just be as hateful. And maybe they are. But as I see it, if Rob fans did not start hating Kristen from the time Twilight started (at that time she was only 17. Now, she's 23 and the hate is still going on), some Kristen fans that I know of wouldn't even feel the need to defend Kristen and, in turn, direct their hate towards Rob, his fan base or both Rob and his fan base. It's not nice and it's not something to be proud of. Some will even say that they are just fueling the fire of hate between the two fan bases. But understand that one can only stay silent for long until the hate surrounding him/her becomes frustrating. It's not an excuse; I just hope people would understand where Kristen fans are coming from.

3) I am one of the people who is happy for and supports Kristen. Regardless of who committed what mistake, I believe that mistakes should not define us. Neither should it hinder us from achieving happiness. If that is the case, then no one would ever be happy because we are all vulnerable to mistakes. All of us. Even those who are so quick to criticize Kristen for everything she does. 

Just think about it.

^{1 Nonstens are what people in the fandom would call someone who is a fan of Rob but hates Kristen. Sometimes, myself and a few others use it as a general term for anyone who hates Kristen.} 

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Freedom is a state of mind. 

In my opinion, nothing is ever  absolute in this world. Not even freedom. With that said, in every post, I might exercise my right to speak my mind, but rest assured that I will be responsible in doing so.

This post will serve as a blog disclaimer as well. So here are a few things to remember:

1. I will exercise my right to speak responsibly in every post. You will practice your right to comment RESPONSIBLY as well in the comments section. When I say 'Responsibly', it means you need to practice Respect. Respect yourself enough to think twice before publishing your comments. Respect everyone in the Comments section and the Moderator as well.

2. I am a fan of Kristen Stewart. I am telling you now that you will see me post several things regarding her. I am also inclined in many different things. So here's the deal. If you hate her or anything else that I am inclined into or support, don't drop by to tell me so or try to persuade me to change my stand by mocking me or my ideas. Why? a) Because it is unproductive b) Because the more condescendingly arrogant someone is, the less I listen. and c) I change my opinion with new information. Let me arrive to my own conclusions.

3. Like I said, I change my opinion with new information. I believe a lot of us do so, to be honest. With that said, let me arrive to my own conclusions. If you feel like I'm mistaken in something, please provide me with the necessary information to prove it. Bonus points if you are not arrogant, condescending or patronizing about it! If you cannot be bothered to do so, don't question my perceptions then.

*That's it for now. Keep in mind that this Dutchman might edit this set of things to remember in the near future. Some things might be removed (I doubt it) or added (definitely). Thank you!